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Daily Orgasm
Daily Orgasm
This ? or This?
The choice is up to you.
Actually that does NOT mean you have to make sure she has an orgasm every day. BUT, you should be able to recognize all the little subtleties in her mood changes, that perhaps it's time you did something for her. You know the feelings you get when you need it, well it's equally important to recognize when she needs it also. And YES women do need it also. Then learn and apply the ways to guarantee her orgasm and make peace in your home forever,
Don't get so set on the goal of orgasm as much as the "road" to it.
Enjoy sex for the moment and give attentions to the whole experience.
In Greek mythology Eros was the son of Aphrodite, the Goddess of Love. The term Eros represents the creative force of highly spiritual, sexual yearning or love. C.G. Jung said, "people think that Eros is sex, but not at all, Eros is relatedness." Eros represents the spiritual, emotional and the physical aspects of sex combined. It is the intense bond created by the involved couples. Plato writes: "Eros is a coming to life in beauty in relation to both body and soul."
Eastern Philosophies recognize this sacred life force which increases in strength in response to sexual arousal, extreme emotions and flight or fight responses. Kundalini is the eastern term for this mystical-life -force which when awakened can lead us beyond inner turmoil toward happier and healthier lives.
"Shiva, the patron saint of Hindu Tantrism, once observed "By practice, even without understanding, it will be made plain; your body will understand it long before your mind puts words to it. No amount of understanding without practice will work. It is not necessary that knowledge precede experience. Performance will produce knowledge."
Enjoy the world around you for what it is. Slow down and, take time to smell the roses, to enjoy nature and follow your hearts desire. Incorporate balance into your life. All work and no play means a pretty dull and boring life. Nurture the points in yourself that you want to grow. We all are expressions of the higher force. Recognize your higher potential and build from there. Sex is the most powerfully and moving creative "life" force on earth. Tap into your dynamic possibilities, work on incorporating your sexuality into every aspect of your existence and you will live a full and sensual life.
Many women wonder and sometimes even worry about why they are missing something so important, as coitus reaches its peak moment. Why don't they have an orgasm, a sensation that is normal and should be enjoyed at that time? One of the biggest reasons I believe is because men do not take the care to be in tune with her, and simply assuming she had an orgasm at the height of sensation, but never taking her over the top.
It is an accepted fact that a woman is capable of having an orgasm. The question is what are the obstacles. Unnecessary limits that may have been implanted in our thoughts can have the power to determine how we act. Let us consider a few of these possible restrictions to see what can be done to reduce their damage. A major problem obviously can be the quality of the relationship existing between the partners. In the situations about to be described, we shall assume that love does exist in order to focus solely upon sex. If not, the issue is the relationship and not the sex. In the case of women who worry about being "normal" because at times they do have an orgasm but never during intercourse, it is important for them to understand that orgasm is the peak response to stimulation however it is reached. The manner by which that climax is achieved is of much less importance than the pleasure and relaxation that follow.
Stimulation can be arrived at through a variety of actions, some at times more enjoyable than others; but many women are reluctant to express their preferences. The path to orgasm can be freed of stumbling blocks by informing the partner of what gives real pleasure. Additionally, general body caressing is an important prelude to moving toward the vaginal area and should be encouraged by words or body responses.
Anxieties and distractions are intruders during love-making. Taking them to bed guarantees no orgasm. Questions and concerns deserve attention, but at a time and place where a useful answer is available. Worrying about "what's wrong with me" will only prolong the problem. To the worriers, I urge starting in a relaxed state.
Orgasm requires letting go.
Telling your partner what feels good, experimenting with different positions and focusing only on the moment at hand are the freeing-up tactics. Let go of expectations and drift on to thoughts about loving, being loved and to whatever else peaks the excitement. Then let the flame flare.
So, enough said on what we should all already know, and on to making sure your sweetheart has the orgasm she needs and wants.
First a question or two. Do you really know what her clit looks like? Have you taken the loving care to explore her clit and learn what turns her on. In fact, can you actually find it and say "this is it",?
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