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How to Satisfy a Woman
How to Satisfy a Woman
Paraphrased from the book: How to Satisfy a Woman Every Time by Naura Hayden
The Big Bang Theory or as the Chinese call it, The Great Typhoon
When you are making love it is fabulous for you, the man, it is sensual, sensational, pleasure filled and your orgasm is fantastic! And you assume it is the same for your partner, after all, she is breathing harder, her nipples are hard, her face is flushed, she is writhing in ecstasy, moaning, mewling, clenching her legs against you. Of course she is having an orgasm...or is she? No man can tell if a woman is faking it, and sometimes she is.
Many women have NEVER had an orgasm during sexual intercourse...sad to say, but true. For various reasons, they do not want to tell their partner that they are not having orgasms. She may be  concerned about hurting his feelings, making him feel he is totally responsible for her lack of one, he may think she is `frigid' if she does not `cum' every time they make love. And sometimes she does not know why she is not having an orgasm. If she is shy, she can't ask anyone about it, and buying books would be too embarrassing. So she does not know why or how to reach an orgasm. Some women never masturbate, thinking it is dirty or wrong, and so they don't know their own bodies well enough to find out what feels good to them.
This page is designed to help men know what to do to and for their woman to help them achieve fabulous orgasms. Maybe not every time you make love, but most of the time. Health, and fatigue will sometimes be a factor in a woman's mood, and the brain is where it all starts anyway.
Too often a man goes by the Big Bang Theory. In and out, in and out, hard and fast. He does not realize that this does not always feel good to her. Yes, further on in your lovemaking, when the woman is fully aroused, this can be satisfying, but at the beginning, it does not feel all that good.
It may not always hurt, but the clitoris is sensitive, and does not need to be manhandled (so to speak) like the man's penis. And depending on the length of a man's organ, the cervix can also be feeling battered and bruised. After awhile of being "banged" it is uncomfortable or painful and a woman may fake an orgasm just to get it over with.
To illustrate this, (for the men) put your arm out in front of you...now make a fist with the opposite hand and hit your arm with the fist for about 30 seconds. Feel good? No, not really, and imagine doing that for minutes on end. You would fake anything to get it over with too.
Teasing
Stop and think what turns you on. The slight breeze of a lovely perfume, a whiff of a delicious dessert, the touch of silk on your skin. All soft, gentle things. It is not so pleasant to be overwhelmed by heavy smells, or heavy touches. Try another experiment now...take the arm that you were beating on and run your fingers lightly over it..just the fingertips, barely touch the skin, tease it, tickle it a little. After a few seconds, you feel like you want to scratch it. The soft touch makes a gently itch that wants to be scratched.
The same principle applies to making love. First, gently touch her skin, anywhere. Her leg, arm, face, the back of her neck. It must be soft, gentle, teasing. Spend a moment or two there, then slowly work up to her breasts. Softly and slowly with the tips and the pads of your fingers. (Hygiene note here, please make sure your fingernails are clean, nails cut and smooth and especially if you work in some field that your hands get rough and chapped, put some lotion on them. No one likes to be touched with sandpaper) Now, run your fingertips all around her nipples, but don't touch them yet. If her breasts are heavy, lift one up and run your fingers underneath it....if not, still, run your finger under her breasts. Men are not usually aware that this is a very sensitive place for a woman.
This teasing you are doing will arouse your partner and she will want you to touch her even more...but don't, not yet. Tease a bit longer...and make sure you don't paw or maul her with your big hands. (This is sometimes called Three play, cause it sure isn't foreplay!)  When you have teased enough, touch her nipples, but lightly. Don't pull, or pinch, or knead. Use the palms of your hands, rubbing them lightly in circles. Touch so lightly that it is almost like you are not touching at all. This will drive her crazy. By holding back you are creating a wonderful tension in both of you, that will be satisfied. Even if your penis is hard and aroused, do not put it in her, not yet. That comes with the Main Event.
Main Event
Now you are aroused, your penis is aroused and she is aroused. DO NOT ENTER HER.
Take your penis in your hand and gently rub her clitoris with it. Gently, very gently. Play with her with your penis very softly. You could go inside her, but you are choosing not to. You are going to tease her with it until she practically begs you for it.
Tease her clit gently, and the more you tease, the more aroused she will get. If you feel at any time like you can't make it any longer without cumming, you can hold off by stopping for a few minutes and using your hands...or pressing under the head of your penis very hard, or even pulling your testicles down a bit.
Rub your penis all over her body....not just her clit, move it over her belly, over her breasts, tease her lips with it, back down over her arms and legs. Have her turn over and rub it all over her back and bottom. Now, go back to her clit. She will be almost crazy by this time.
Now she is really ready for you to put it in....very gently, go in about ½ inch. Then slowly take it out, then back in ½ inch. She will be nuts by now...but don't stop or plunge it in. Continue your teasing, but now, go in an inch and back out, slowly. Then and inch and a half....are you getting the picture? A bit more, a little more. Do not go all the way in until she starts having her orgasm. Just keep teasing her.
The purpose of not going in all the way with your penis is that when you do it, it rams against her clit and the whole purpose of this is to tease her clit, not to hit it, but to create a desire that drives her mad until she has an orgasm.
You are still going in and out, slowly, never going all the way in, and you can feel her getting more and more aroused. This in turn will get you more aroused, because as you tease her, you are teasing yourself too.
Teasing is a form of sweet torture, for both of you. The act of surrender , which is the most wonderful part of an orgasm, is surrendering in love to the one you love.
 If you want to try something that is really incredible, but very difficult to do, when you get to the point of being seconds away from orgasm, stop. Stop cold. Resume again in a few minutes, or hours or even later that night. The orgasm will be even stronger.
At the point where she is reaching orgasm, it is time to go in deeper, slowly. When you feel her body begin to quiver and shake, you know she is at a full orgasm, for real this time. She may moan and even scream, and this time it is not faked. You can be a little more forceful at this time and now it is time for you to experience your full orgasm. If you can wait, you can continue to make her cum and cum and cum, sometimes 3 to 5 times, or more.
You will notice she is relaxed and loving toward you, after all, you have just given her the most exquisite experience of her life. And she will never forget it, or you.
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Think Pink
Simply the sweet, rosy pink and peach of your spread pussy
Softly spread your thighs, and reveal your puffy, swollen mounds of your pussy, what a wonderful delight to see and savor. As I fondle the soft fleshy mounds to part their downy soft flesh, I begin to see the moist a shimmer of your delicately laced inner folds, revealing all the soft pastel colors of pinks, to light peach, so soft and deliciously inviting, with the glistening of droplets of your juices, as if dew on pastel poppy petals in early morning spring.
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