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Invite Yourself In
Invite yourself in
with confidence, not with arrogance or macho heroics
What do women really want? What men want is very simple, they want a woman. What women want is NOT that simple.
What women want from men is confidence. The secret is Personal Confidence. Confidence... not arrogance, not dominance, not one-upmanship, not useless bravado, not macho heroics. Women just love truly confident men. Although a woman likes to believe a man is willing to deal with a lot of things, what really counts is that he is able to deal with her. A healthy, mature woman resists impassioned commitment to a man who is afraid of her sexuality, her intelligence, or her emotions.
In other words, if you are afraid of her intelligence, her expressive emotions, her independent nature, or her womanly sexuality, you are NOT a very self-confident man. Therefore, a looser. No woman likes to feel that she is less of a woman than the one you knew before her. By admitting defeat through failure from the previous, you are in essence saying that you will now accept second best, or lesser of a woman. She now sees you as a looser.
You must gain and maintain confidence and empathy (unavoidably stuck together) in approaching and relating to women on many levels, in the face of rejections real or imagined. And this is the riskiest venture of all, but the rewards are appropriately the biggest : the devotion of a loving woman who can make your life extremely pleasant on a daily basis.
Self confidence is a social skill which you must learn and practice if what you want is the greatest intimate relationship of you life.
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