Tantra is about love, not fancy sex, it is not techniques of breathing, visualizing, positioning. Tantra says, deep inside you are already free, you are already unblocked, you are already radiant, your are the beginning and ending, you are the source, you are the earth, you are the sun and the moon, you are the universe, so relax, do whatever you want, only do not knowingly harm another, there is no god or goddess other than your true self, Tantra says what is not here, is not anywhere, Tantra says enjoy what is here. Below the superficial self lies an inner darkness,

the negative self-image we avoid yet protect. There in hidden chambers we judge ourselves just as we have judged others. Tantra says get to know this image, Tantra says let go of this image, it is not what it seems, it is not worth the trouble, it is not you, Tantra says love and forgive all your images of self and other, be free of imagery, be free to be, enjoy the feeling of just being, Tantra is the art of unblocked feeling the natural way of radiance. Tantra is about you, the real you, the you, you already are that cannot be added to or diminished, or changed or improved. Tantra is about your true shining Self, always happy, forever free, completely content. Relax, be aware, you are already there. When we make love, it is not only our bodies, it is also our innermost emotions and minds we make love to. All of our self to be naked with our partner. Emotions, mind and innermost, as well as flesh. Honesty in thought, word and action, apart from lovemaking is lovemaking also. During sexual love, with Tantra, emotional garbage will disappear.
Better sooner than later, better now than then, better the whole.