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Light the Flame
Light the Flame
"It is what we think we know already that often prevents us from learning." - C. Bernard
That means, you think you know the answer, when really you don't. Lighting the flame means opening the gate to intimacy. If you want to move the relationship from friendship to next level of intimacy, you will have to test it by exposing you feelings in some way, to find out how she feels. If you don't have the courage to expose your feelings, then you deserve the worst. If you are not prepared to take the risks of possible rejection, then you don't deserve the rewards of a completely open and intimate relationship. The steps in escalating intimacy and testing attachment are the stuff of which Romance is made. You need to start thinking in terms of adventure, rather than possible ego humiliation. If you can't think that way, you may as well as throw passion and romance out the window, because your anxieties will prevent anything glorious from happening with anyone.
The risks of exposing your feelings are intrinsic to dating, courtship, romance, passion, mundane and cosmic sex, and devoted commitment.
Move gradually, but not always slowly, be honest and direct, and most of all, accept disappointment with grace, so you leave plenty of opportunity for her to change her mind later. And if she says no more than a few times, it does mean no, and accept that.
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