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Gourmet Erotic Deviant
Sex is dirty only if it's done right.
Wouldn't it be nice if they just fell on their backs with their legs spread? Unfortunately, it's not like that.
And must I now give you lessons to my own undoing ?
He is only fit to pilfer the sand of the lonely shore
who will not learn the ways to a woman's heart,
and a word of warning, ignore the lessons,
and she will soon be in the arms of another,
long enough have you been idle
perhaps it's not too late,
The FINE ART of becoming a Gourmet Erotic Deviant.
The art of seduction is probably the most misunderstood of all. I am embarrassed at times by my male colleagues when I hear what they consider seduction. We all know that the goal of seductions is sharing physical intimacy with the woman of your desires. In other words, get her to disrobe, or help her disrobe, assume the appropriate position, or be put in the appropriate positions and that she and you enjoy every minute of it. That she can't wait for you to do it all again. Furthermore, normal women enjoy seduction. It is that what takes her on the road to orgasm. What so many of my colleagues don't realize is that a man chases a woman until she catches him.
We are sexual creatures. We love to seduce, and love being seduced. The key to being a master of seduction is the full acceptance of the woman's humanity. Getting someone into bed by coercion, cajoling, convincing, and stuffing them with alcohol is one thing. On the other hand, causing them to desire you and then want to be with you many more times afterwards is what true seduction is all about.
Seduction is Visual - Women understand that very well. They work at it very hard. Try shaving your legs sometime, you'll see what I mean. They learn all the subtle little tricks to present their bodies in the most desirable way possible. When in seduction mode, they know how to look sexy, walk sexy, sit sexy, smile sexy, laugh sexy, and be sexy. They are sexy. Got all that so far ? On the other hand, men are convinced that females love guys with stubble on their chins, wearing an old pair of jeans and a tee-shirt with their favorite beer logo on it, while puffing on a cigarette and proclaiming, "Got the hots for me, baby, don't ya'?" Attractive? Not even close my friend! The woman you want to seduce must also see you as desirable.
Seduction is Alluring - It is a dance between man and woman. You have to work at it. The point is that, in order to be seductive, you will have to do your homework and know what turns on her switch. That means that you will need to get to know her to accomplish this. To be alluring, you have to know what allures her. If you are not paying attention when she talks, what she looks at, hints she gives, you will never learn what allures her.
Seduction is Romantic - It has wisely been said that "Romance is all the little kisses in between." Getting someone to desire you means doing those little things "in between.". Buying her a bouquet of roses is OK, BUT making her feel cherished and loved is much more important. Romance is the fine art of genuinely treating the object of your love with a sweet caringness that arouses the desire in her to want to be with you again and again. If you want to seduce her, be romantic, before, during and especially after passionate sex.
Seduction is Playful - Who said it had to be serious and sensual all the time? Seduction should be fun as well. Teasing while sharing a meal together for example. Food can be a wonderful seduction game. Make her laugh. If you think it will be more effective, add many smiles to your seduction plan. If you can't make her smile or laugh, you have failed.
Seduction is Sensuous - There is nothing wrong with eroticism when formulating a plan to seduce her. This can be done both verbally and visually. And I am not talking about dirty, or profane talk, rather naughty, and naughty is nice. Sensuous can also be a very simple act.
Seduction is Touch - Touch her mind, touch her heart, and touch her physically. In the restaurant touch her hand, when you open the door for her, softly touch her back, when her hair falls in her eyes, softly brush it back for her, learn to touch so softly, affectionately, respectfully.
Seduction is Observation - Of all, this is the very most important to remember and learn. That is the reason I have emphasized the word 'Observation'. Along with observation, a good memory for detail is also very essential. Pay attention to what she smiles for, what she thanks you for, what makes her flush, and what makes her laugh. And put all those little details in your little brain for future reference, and then be sure to repeat all of those often, and improve on the quality of that. Then, with all of the above, learn from your mistakes, and don't be stupid enough to make the same mistake twice.
And all of this is a never ending, daily learning experience. When you stop learning about her, and the lights go out, the romance is over.
Remember, if you smoke after sex, you're doing it too fast!
The secret to a rich and rewarding romantic life is keeping your wits
and your erection while all others around you are loosing theirs.
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