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Location
Location, location, location
For some reason, romance and sex seems to be some sort of alchemy to most men,
It's often said that in retail there are three things you need to succeed - location, location, location. While much more goes into a romance than the story's location, it's still true that setting can make a good story great and a great story unforgettable. In my experience, setting can be especially useful in the creation of ultra-sensual and erotic romances.
Settings which play to all five of the senses. The slow down. Once you have prepared the setting / location, then think of it as a slow sensuous dance.
Romance is routine maintenance--yeah, like your car--to keep things running smoothly. Remember all those romantic things you did to win her in the first place? Keep doing them now and then. Women talk for the sheer pleasure of talking. It's how they connect to people. SO, if you give her your full attention when she does talk to you, it becomes one of those romantic gestures. And you know how she's always trying to get you to be "more intimate"? If you listen to her more, she'll think you are being more intimate. All you have to do is look at her and pay attention; she'll think she's died and gone to heaven. It's that important to her, and that simple.
Make it a game, - Having a rich sexual life is healthy, and worth the effort it takes to create.
Great sex is much more than bodies rubbing delightfully together.
It's also about trust, intimacy and communication.
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If all the world is a stage, then where is the audience sitting ?
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That cosmic allurement, or love, might just as well be called Eros ("desire"). Indeed, this is exactly how Plato understood the term. Eros is a deep longing for union. Even though Plato explained that Eros is midway between having and not having, it is implicit in desire that it seeks to gain possession of its valued object. Thus Eros has rightly been transcribed as "acquisitive love."
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Er·os (µr“¼s”, îr“-) n. 1. Greek Mythology. The god of love, son of Aphrodite. 2. Psychiatry. a. The sum of all instincts for self-preservation. b. Sexual drive; libido. 3. Often eros. Creative, often sexual yearning, love, or desire.
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